Tantra
2003-09-30 * sad facts about most people's sex lives
These are some interesting facts that I found, and I think that most research bears them out....
The average orgasm is only ten seconds long. The average frequency of intercourse is once or twice a week for most couples. That equals about 20 seconds of orgasm per week; one-and-a-half minutes per month, or 18 whole ecstatic minutes each year. (Just so you know, in 50 years, that would be about 15 hours).
Human beings of both genders devote thousands and thousands of hours to fantasizing about sex, worrying about sex, daydreaming about sex, wishing for sex, planning for sex ... for just 15 hours of ecstasy in 50 years.
Tantric sex is not about adding more orgasms, it's about being orgasmic, which is our very nature. You can learn how to prolong your orgasms from ten seconds to ten minutes or more when you expand your idea of orgasm beyond the genitals into a whole-body experience.
With the mastery of advanced techniques, couples are able to reach orgasm without even touching each other! And Tantra creates an electrical link between partners that is fun to play with even with your clothes on.
Ejaculatory control is essential to keeping the orgiastic energy going. I refer to this as "resistance" because it applies to both genders. Using breath control combined with various postures, the magical energy can be captured and manipulated to reach the highest heights. Men can learn to experience orgasm without ejaculating, and both men and women can experience transcendental orgasms that include their hearts, minds, and entire bodies.
With resistance high, a couple can go for hours with this delicious energy running thru their bodies. If you haven't tried it yet, give it a test-drive; next time you are masterbating, just try to resist the temptation to orgasm. This will show you the tip of the iceberg that Tantra can teach you.
